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剧场里的幻想讲一个虚拟情景故事。在一个剧场里面，演员和观众可能会出现三种场景。下面就这三种场景做一个虚拟的幻想。第一种场景演员的表演很用工，表演很投入，台下的观众被感染，大多数都看入神了。设想一下在这种场景下，接下来会有啥样的情况出现。演员表演非常用心、投入，台下的观众被深深感染，大多数人都看得入神了。这种充满情感共鸣和艺术魅力的时刻，不仅让人沉浸其中，还可能在未来带来一系列有趣而深远的情况。1. ...

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Focus on healthHealth was never seen as the most important thing—until illness showed up in my own body.For example, I used to ignore dental health when I was young. Now, at sixty-five, I realize I should have started protecting my teeth many years ago. Back then, I didn’t take it seriously and thought all those warnings were just tedious advice.We really should follow the laws of science and listen to others’ suggestions.The same goes for many other things in...

学习是很重要的如果你不学习，你会把时间用于社交，娱乐，无聊消遣，闲下来后会觉得空虚。但是如果你在不断学习，你会感觉到自己的无知，就需要不断的进行学习，弥补无知。因而你会感觉到充实，和时间的快速流失。结果你会又站在一个小高地上环视四周。当然许多人不会理解这种感受。乐于学习的人才会有，才会珍惜时间。才喜欢不断地去攀登一个个小高地。如果你把你的优点与别人的缺点进行比较，那你肯定是充满了自豪感。然而你也就失去了进步的动力，自我感觉很好的你不会觉得你有什么需要改进的地方，此时你犹如踩在了西瓜皮上，任由西瓜皮无方向性地滑进，只有等撞上障碍物，你被撞得头破血流后，可能你会察觉到一些错误。如果由此你进行改进，还是不错的结果。

AssumptionsThere are three stages of development:First, people don’t trust you.Second, they don’t obey you.Third, they are no longer afraid of you. 假设发展分为三个阶段：第一阶段，人们不信任你；第二阶段，他们不服从你；第三阶段，他们已经不再害怕你。

what do they live forMany people spend their whole lives bowing and compromising — trying to be worthy of everyone but themselves. I truly believe this isn’t the life most of us long for. Live fully in the present. Savor each day, each fleeting moment. Don’t dwell on the past you cannot change, nor chase after a future you cannot control. Let life unfold — what comes will come, and what goes is meant to go. Most people, before reaching middle age, work tirelessly for their children and...

Good TimesMany people believe that good times simply mean that misfortunes are happening elsewhere—to others, not to themselves.It is peace by omission, a quiet bought with distance and chance. As long as suffering stays out of sight, they call the world kind.When storms rage far away, they close their windows and claim it’s a sunny day.They mistake absence for immunity, believing that fortune is their birthright.But fate has no favorites. One day, what they chose to ignore may arrive...

A True StoryThis is a true story that happened close to me. It shows how illness can bring tremendous changes to a family.The mother in this family was a kind and graceful woman. Before retiring, she held a good job. Her son secured a promising position after completing his studies abroad, and her husband had a respectable career. Together, they lived a happy and peaceful life. One day, the mother began to feel unwell, suffering from frequent headaches. She was taken to the hospital for a...

再次相逢昨天，几个大学校友聚到一起，大家海阔天空抒发各自的感受和感叹。我们离开大学已经44年多了。所以我们之间也有很大的不区别。首先，我们的身体发生了很大的变化。其次，我们各自都按照自己的方式走过了这44年。当然，如果我们有思考或反思这44年。可能会有意想不到的感受。另外，人的年纪大了，就需要多说话；这对你的身体和大脑都有好处。这是医生的建议。思考问题越多，说话就越多。希望我们各自带着健康的身体，灵活的大脑，有质量地走完我们的第二生活路程。

体面不是尊严很多人把体面误当成尊严。穿得干净一点、住得好一点、在别人面前不掉价，就以为这就是“有尊严的生活”。于是我们看到：被领导骂得难堪也要点头；面对不合理只能说“没关系”；不想应酬却硬着头皮举杯；家里讲道理，外面不敢吭声。这种体面，只是包装。撕开包装，是一个连尊严都不敢提的人。体面，是给别人看的；尊严，是给自己活的。体面让别人觉得你过得不错，尊严让你觉得自己不是被摆布的。你可以买体面、堆面子、装姿态，唯独尊严，装不出来。尊严一旦丢掉，体面就成了遮羞布。很多人追求的体面，不过是不自由生活的伪装。越追体面，越害怕失去；越害怕失去，越放弃尊严。到最后你会发现：你不是体面地活着，而是体面地被束缚。当你穿得体面却不敢拒绝，吃得体面却不敢表达，住得体面却不敢选择，挣得体面却不敢抬头——体面已经成了枷锁，而尊严早就丢了。记住——体面是别人给的；尊严是你给自己的。愿你活得体面前，先活得有尊严。那一天开始，你才真正过上了属于自己的生活。